1. CONNECT WITH YOUR SENSUAL SELF
When
it comes to having great séx, knowing what you're comfortable with in
the bedroom is just as important as technique (or being freakishly
flexible.) Feeling in charge of your séxuality is a non-negotiable
requirement on the quest to mind-blowing séx, so if you're lacking in
the séxual self-confidence department, now is the time to bone up. Dance
around your apartment nakéd, schedule some me-time with a vibrating
toy, buy yourself a hot dress – whatever you do, find a fun way to
increase your séxual confidence and awareness on your own, so that
you're better able to rock your man's world later on
2. WARM IT UP
Foréplay
is to séx whilet stretching is to a workout; you have to prep your body
for what's to come. Some men may want to fast forward to the main
event, so you must be firm on this and not allow them to skip the
pre-show. Kissing, groping, biting, and stroking are all excellent go-to
moves; however, nothing is more beneficial to amazing, orgas mic séx
than a sensual, tantric massage. Not only do massages feel good, but, as
an added bonus, they warm up your skin and connect you with your
partner. So put on some séxy music, light a soy candle, and take turns
massaging each other, head to toe.
3. TRY EVERYTHING ONCE
If
you're in a relationship, what was once great séx can become stale if
you're not careful. You may ask yourself 'what happened?' or feel like
the spark has dimmed, but in reality, you just need to change things up.
There is nothing more exhilarating than the unexpected, so
experimenting with different positions or introducing a toy might be all
that is needed to put the "oh yes!" back into your lovemaking. For
inspiration, flip through a book with your partner, such as The Position
Séx Bible or The Position of the Day Playbook. The Kama Sutra is also a
classic.
4. THE BIG O
For
most women, exhilarating séx means stronger, more frequent orga sms.
While you can't climax at will, there are ways to increase the
probability of an orga sm. Start with strengthening your PC muscles
with séxercises, relax as much as possible, and of course, practice a
lot!
Lastly,
it's important to remember that great séx isn't about having perfect
technique or rock solid abs, instead, the best séx of your life will
happen when you are completely in the moment, ferocious with lust, and
having fun.
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