If you want to avoid major drama in your relationship, resist the seven
habits below that are known to ruin otherwise healthy relationships.
1. Criticizing his/her family: No matter how you feel about your boyfriend/girlfriend's family, making it known to him/her just how much they drive you crazy is bound to drive an irreparable wedge into your relationship. So it's best to hold your tongue when the subject of his family comes up.
2. Spying: You may think you're doing yourself a favor by keeping up constant surveillance your boyfriend/girlfriend's blog, Facebook and Twitter habits; however by being aware of the minutiae of his/her whereabouts and thoughts, you're more likely to do your relationship more harm than good.
3. Fighting in Public: It is natural for couples to have the occasional argument, especially after being together for any significant amount of time; however, fights that become so uncontrollable that they regularly spill out into the open, damage your relationship!
4. Letting yourself go: Not only is it bad for your health and overall well-being, but letting yourself go -- whether that means gaining weight or not caring about your appearance -- after settling into a relationship is one habit that sends a bad message to your partner: if you stop caring about yourself, he may assume that you've stopped caring about him too.
5.Trying to improve him: Many women think they are helping the men that they're with by trying to make them over, however, by doing so; they only end up causing more problems for the relationship.
6. Allowing problems to fester: Everyone would like to think that they have the perfect relationship; however, if in your quest to avoid creating drama in your relationship, you frequently allow things that upset you to go unsaid; you are doing yourself and your partner a great disservice. Good communication is the cornerstone of any happy, long-term coupling.
7. Lying: Lying to your boyfriend/girlfriend for any reason does not bode well for a successful future together. Just don't do it!!
1. Criticizing his/her family: No matter how you feel about your boyfriend/girlfriend's family, making it known to him/her just how much they drive you crazy is bound to drive an irreparable wedge into your relationship. So it's best to hold your tongue when the subject of his family comes up.
2. Spying: You may think you're doing yourself a favor by keeping up constant surveillance your boyfriend/girlfriend's blog, Facebook and Twitter habits; however by being aware of the minutiae of his/her whereabouts and thoughts, you're more likely to do your relationship more harm than good.
3. Fighting in Public: It is natural for couples to have the occasional argument, especially after being together for any significant amount of time; however, fights that become so uncontrollable that they regularly spill out into the open, damage your relationship!
4. Letting yourself go: Not only is it bad for your health and overall well-being, but letting yourself go -- whether that means gaining weight or not caring about your appearance -- after settling into a relationship is one habit that sends a bad message to your partner: if you stop caring about yourself, he may assume that you've stopped caring about him too.
5.Trying to improve him: Many women think they are helping the men that they're with by trying to make them over, however, by doing so; they only end up causing more problems for the relationship.
6. Allowing problems to fester: Everyone would like to think that they have the perfect relationship; however, if in your quest to avoid creating drama in your relationship, you frequently allow things that upset you to go unsaid; you are doing yourself and your partner a great disservice. Good communication is the cornerstone of any happy, long-term coupling.
7. Lying: Lying to your boyfriend/girlfriend for any reason does not bode well for a successful future together. Just don't do it!!
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