1)The tradition of not allowing the newlyweds to use the bathroom for 3 days.
Well,
this one can get painful and ugly. Members of the Tidong community in
Sandakan, Sabah, Malaysia do not allow newlyweds to go to the bathroom
for 3 days and 3 nights. If they do, they will have bad luck,
apparently. Bad luck may come in the form of a broken union, the death
of children, or even infertility. The couple is starved and given little
water.
2) The ritual of marrying animals to exorcise ghosts.
In
some parts of India it is believed that if a baby girl has a tooth
rooted to her upper gum, it's the obvious sign that she will be eaten by
a tiger or something in the near future, because ghosts hate her.
Therefore, she must marry an animal. The good news is that this is
nothing but a mock ceremony and the couple don't have to consummate the
wedding. It's just to ward off the evil spirits so the girl can marry a
real boy some time later.
3)The ritual where guests pay to dance with the bride.
This
Polish tradition involves all of wedding guests, the bride, dancing,
money and an apron. At the wedding reception, the bride will dance with
her father, while a relative holds out an apron. Guests who place money
in the apron win the opportunity to dance with the bride. After a time,
the groom will throw in his wallet, thus surpassing all the other
contributions. He will then whisk away his new wife on their honeymoon.
4) The brides who wear rings on their toes instead of fingers.
Whereas
most jewelry exchanged at weddings involves placing rings on fingers,
Hindu brides use the Bichiya, which is the tradition of wearing their
wedding rings on their feet. The ring is usually silver and placed on a
woman's left foot, specifically on her great toe (which is next to the
big toe). The groom slips the ring on the bride's foot during the
ceremony, and these rings are only worn by married women.
5)The ritual of smashing dishes.
The
origin of this tradition is unknown, but it's thought that the
cacophonous sounds caused by the smashing of the cookery represent the
inevitable future disturbances that the couple will face throughout
their married lives. By breaking the dishes beforehand, the community is
preparing the couple for the obstacles ahead and simultaneously wishing
them luck.
6) The practice of kidnapping brides.
Bride
kidnapping, also known as marriage by abduction or marriage by capture,
is a practice throughout history and around the world in which a man
abducts the woman he wishes to marry. It's said that bride kidnapping
still occurs in some cultures like the Romani, also known as Gypsies. If
you manage to forcefully kidnap a girl and keep her by your side for
2-3 days, she officially becomes your wife. Pretty crazy, right?
7)The ritual of blackening the bride.
It's
part of a hazing ritual that actually happens before the wedding. The
bride is taken by surprise, by hands down the crummiest friends you
could have, and covered from head to toe with foul substances such as
eggs, various sauces, feathers, and, well, you name it….The ritual of
covering brides and grooms in treacle, soot and flour used to be carried
out to ward off evil spirits. It still happens in parts of Scotland.
8)The ritual where grooms jumps over a broom.
Jumping
the broom is a time-honored wedding tradition in which the bride and
groom jump over a broom during the ceremony. The act symbolizes a new
beginning and a sweeping away of the past, and can also signify the
joining of two families or offer a respectful nod to family ancestors.
9) The ritual of beating the groom's feet.
Most
men look forward to the conclusion of their weddings, but in South
Korea the groom has to endure a beating before he can retire with his
bride. After the wedding ceremony, friends of the groom take off his
socks, tie a rope around the ankles, and start beating the soles of his
feet with dried yellow corvina. Yellow corvina is a kind of fish! It is
done to make the groom stronger before the first wedding night.
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