Every
man want to believe they are great in bed. And most women know this so
they might not feel comfortable with coming out and telling you how
terrible you are.
But fear not, her mouth may lie, but her actions won’t.
Here are 10 signs you are not as good as you think you are.
1.
She does not come back: Often times, men are so focused on the idea
that the more varieties the better and believing that they only wanted
one night with her anyway, so they do not notice that the girl does not
even make any attempt to fix another date. Even a girl who is not
interested in a serious relationship, will often come back for seconds
if the s*x is good. When you realize that your partners just keep
disappearing after one tryst with you, then maybe you should take a step
back. And check yourself.
2.
She hurts: The fact that you gave her a back-ache or she can’t walk
after spending the night with you is not a reason to pat yourself in the
back for a job well done. Great s*x do not hurt after, terrible s*x do.
3.
She Has to Get Up Early the Next Day: Sure, it’s possible that she
actually does have some place to be early in the morning. But if that’s
the case, why did she come back to your apartment at 3 a.m. in the first
place? There’s a chance she’s just a busy woman who keeps a tight
schedule, but if she doesn’t stick around for seconds, then the meal
probably wasn’t very good to begin with.
4.She
gives you a lot of instruction: A little guidance here and there is
okay, in fact, dirty talk during s*x can make for an exhilarating
experience, but when the s*x session becomes a class session, then you
are doing something wrong. If all you hear is “Oh, baby. Right there. No
wait, there. No, over there…”, then you are not blowing her mind.
5.
She asks if you’re done: Okay, she probably isn’t going to ask you
that, but if it lasted less than ten minutes, you know she’s thinking
it. Trust us, there are many dudes out there who a lot of guys reach
climax too quickly. Sometimes it happens, and there’s not much you can
do about it. If you are one of those, try focus a lot more on foreplay
and give her a lot of time to warm up before the act, that way she is
almost at her pick before the real action begin.
6:
She Fakes It: You know when she’s faking it, you just don’t want to
admit it to yourself. Maybe she moans too loud, or not loud enough, and
she doesn’t go slightly cross-eyed like she usually does. It’s OK if you
don’t get her off every time (as long as you’ve made an effort). But if
it becomes a habit, she might upgrade to someone who can.
