What Do Women Truly Look For?
While
personal tastes vary considerably, there are certain things about a man
that are almost guaranteed to turn a woman’s head, and ultimately her
heart. The more of these traits a man possesses, the better.
1. Confidence
This
is a big one, and is present in body language, tone of voice, and in
every way you interact with her. A healthy dose of confidence says you
have something to be confident about; let her guess all that it entails!
2. Handiness
Men
are valued more for their savvy when it comes to fixing things and it’s
something women love, since this doesn’t come as easily to them. Fix
her computer, leaky faucet or windshield wipers and she’ll think you a
big strong man capable of making her life a little easier when she hits a
snag like this in the middle of her hectic day.
3. Hygiene
Looking
good and smelling good are crucial factors in the s*xual appeal of a
mate (and it’s only fair to assume that if you want to attract a woman
who is put together nicely that you should put some effort into it
yourself). Grooming, taking the time to dress well, applying light
cologne or aftershave are some of the little things, which will attract a
woman on a conscious or subconscious level, so it’s worth the extra
time involved.
4. Generosity
No
one likes a cheap date and if you seem selfish with your money or
possessions, this will not up your hotness factor, but may decrease it
considerably. This is not to say that you must spoil and pamper her and
break the bank doing it, but make her feel special and like she’s worth
it to you to spend a little money on.
5. Positivity
Life
can throw some curve balls and it’s the men that can be positive
through it all who look the most attractive. It’s definitely not sexy to
hear a guy whine or always go to the dark side when things don’t go as
planned; it appears as a lack of strength in character.
6. Attentiveness
Pay
attention to her! When she speaks, listen with interest. When you are
standing next to her, touch her or show her with your body language that
you are into her. The fastest way for a woman to lose interest in you
is for you to be more focused on the next woman walking into the room
than her.
7. Keeping in Shape
Many
men can grow complacent about staying in good shape and can easily let
themselves go. Exercise has to be made a priority in your schedule and
while you may think she doesn’t care about it unless you were to blow up
like a beached whale, trust in the fact that when you are more toned
and tighter, her attraction to you will increase noticeably.
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